By Linus Garg
First publised on 2025-08-27 03:11:08
In a nation that proclaims progress and modernity, the harrowing case of Nikki Bhati - allegedly tortured and set ablaze by her husband and in-laws over dowry demands - lays bare a brutal reality we still refuse to confront. Married since 2016, Nikki did not just bear the weight of domestic violence; she bore the weight of society's deep-seated patriarchy. A Scorpio SUV, a motorcycle, and gold ornaments - none of it could buy her peace. In the end, her pursuit of autonomy did what material gifts could not - its audacity cost her life.
This is not merely a crime; it is a lamentable spectacle, a pernicious echo of centuries-old misogyny. Nikki's ambition - running a beauty parlour, appearing in social media reels - seemed to violate the unspoken marital code. Her resistance embodied something far more threatening: a woman refusing to play her assigned role. For this defiance, she paid with her life.
The outrage following her death - her father's public demand for the harshest punishment, women's rights bodies taking urgent notice, and social media exploding in grief and anger - signals that this is more than just another headline. Celebrities and ordinary citizens alike have demanded severe consequences for the perpetrators. Yet, beneath the rage and tears, lies disturbingly familiar terrain: legislation that rings hollow in its enforcement.
India has long had laws against dowry and domestic violence. The Dowry Prohibition Act of 1961, and criminal provisions against cruelty and dowry deaths, are firmly in place. On paper, the protections seem robust. In practice, they crumble under the weight of apathy. Courts are congested, police often indifferent, and society continues to treat such issues as "domestic matters." Every new act of horror is met with shock, only to slip beneath the next news cycle until another tragedy occurs.
The culture of objectifying women, of commodifying even their deaths, must be challenged. Nikki was more than a wife or a provider of dowry - she was a person with dreams, ambitions, and a life worth preserving. The videos of her driving a car, smiling with confidence and joy, remind us she was real - vibrant and hopeful - not a statistic in some government ledger.
As a society, we must stop normalizing the violence cloaked in tradition. When a woman alleges harassment or violence, we must take it seriously. When dowry demands persist despite earlier compliance, we must not dismiss it as a family issue. When enforcement falters, citizens must rally, protest, and demand reform. Silence and indifference are complicity.
Nikki's death is a mirror - one that demands we confront the face of our collective failure. Until we dismantle the prejudices that see women as liabilities, until justice is not just a promise but a practice, tragedies like hers will continue. Let her story not fade into another statistic. Let it mark a turning point - not merely in mourning, but in a meaningful social awakening.









